Messianic Jewish Counseling Devotional for Couples on Parasha Vayikra

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Theme: Drawing Near to G-d and Each Other Through Sacrifice and Grace

Scripture Focus: Leviticus 1:1-2

“The LORD called to Moshe and spoke to him from the Tent of Meeting. He said, ‘Speak to the people of Israel and say to them: When anyone among you brings an offering to the LORD, bring as your offering an animal from either the herd or the flock.’”

Devotional Thought: The Invitation to Draw Near

In Parasha Vayikra, we see the heart of Ad-nai calling His people to draw near to Him through the offerings. The word "Vayikra" means "And He called" a tender, intentional invitation from G-d to engage in the relationship.

For couples, this parashah reflects a profound truth: intimacy is built on intentional sacrifice, not out of duty or fear, but out of love.

In Messiah Yeshua, the sacrificial system finds its fulfillment. We no longer bring bulls or goats, but we get ourselves: our hearts, our love, and yes, even our brokenness to G-d and each other.

Reflection for Couples:

  • In what ways can we offer ourselves to each other sacrificially this week?
  • Are there areas where we’ve been holding back from G-d or each other because of pride, fear, or unhealed pain?
  • How does Yeshua’s ultimate sacrifice shape the way we forgive, love, and serve one another?

Counseling Insight: Identifying Patterns

Parasha Vayikra teaches that offerings were given with intentionality and self-awareness. In a relationship, emotional closeness often requires that same level of intentionality.

Try this exercise together:

  1. Each partner writes down one recurring “offering” (a positive action) you give to the relationship (e.g., encouragement, listening, acts of service).
  2. Then, write down one “sacrifice” you’re willing to make this week to nurture your bond (e.g., releasing a grudge, offering more patience, giving up defensiveness).
  3. Pray together, asking Ad-nai to bless your relationship as a living sacrifice (Romans 12:1) in Messiah.

Prayer:

Abba, thank You for calling us close, not just individually, but as a couple. Help us reflect on the love and unity that You’ve designed for marriage. Teach us to love sacrificially like Yeshua, to forgive sincerely, and to walk humbly together. May our relationship be an offering of peace and joy before You. B’shem Yeshua, amen.

Action Step for the Week:

Do an “At His Altar Time” at home. Light a candle together on Erev Shabbat, and each one will take a turn sharing one way you’re grateful for the other. Then, ask, “What can I do to support your walk with G-d this week?” Listen with grace.

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