Messianic Jewish Devotional for Couples on Parasha Va’era
Theme: Trusting G-d’s Faithfulness in Your Marriage
Scripture Focus: Sh’mot (Exodus) 6:2-8
Opening Reflection
In Parasha Va’era, we see G-d reaffirming His covenant with Moses and the children of Israel, reminding them of His unchanging faithfulness. Despite their doubts and Pharaoh’s resistance, G-d was actively working to bring about redemption. As couples, we can draw from this passage to reflect on G-d’s faithfulness in our marriage, especially during challenging seasons.
Scripture for Reflection
“I appeared to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob as El Shaddai, but by My name YHWH, I did not make Myself fully known to them. I also established My covenant with them to give them the land of Canaan, the land where they resided as foreigners. Moreover, I have heard the groaning of the Israelites, whom the Egyptians are enslaving, and I have remembered My covenant.”
— Sh’mot (Exodus) 6:2-5
Key Lessons for Couples
1. Remember G-d’s Faithfulness
G-d reminded Moses of His promises to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, emphasizing that He had not forgotten His covenant. Similarly, G-d’s faithfulness in the past is a foundation for the future.
For Your Marriage:
- Think back to how G-d brought you together as a couple. What prayers has He answered? What challenges has He helped you overcome?
- In moments of doubt or difficulty, remembering G-d’s faithfulness can provide the reassurance and strength you need to move forward together.
Reflection Question:
- What’s one way you’ve seen G-d’s faithfulness in your relationship?
2. Trust G-d’s Timing
Although the Israelites cried out for deliverance, G-d’s plan unfolded on His timeline, not theirs. He was preparing Moses, Pharaoh, and Israel for the redemption that was to come.
For Your Marriage:
- Sometimes, the answers to your prayers for your marriage don’t come immediately. Trust that G-d is working behind the scenes, even if you don’t see the full picture yet.
- Waiting is not wasted when it’s spent trusting in G-d’s timing.
Reflection Question:
- Are there areas in your marriage where you need to trust G-d’s timing more fully?
3. G-d’s Redemption is Personal and Powerful
In Sh’mot (Exodus) 6:6-8, G-d makes four powerful promises to Israel:
- “I will bring you out.”
- “I will deliver you.”
- “I will redeem you.”
- “I will take you to be My people.”
These promises are deeply personal, showing that G-d’s redemption isn’t just about deliverance—it’s about relationship.
For Your Marriage:
- Just as G-d redeemed Israel, He is actively redeeming your marriage. Through His power and presence, He brings healing, renewal, and hope to your relationship.
- By putting Him at the center of your marriage, you can experience His transforming work together.
Reflection Question:
- In what ways can you invite G-d to redeem and strengthen your relationship today?
Couple’s Activity: Reflection and Prayer
Step 1: Reflect Together
Take 10 minutes to reflect on the following questions:
- What’s one way you’ve seen G-d’s faithfulness in your marriage?
- Is there an area where you feel “stuck” or unsure of G-d’s plan?
- What’s one promise from Scripture that you can hold onto as a couple?
Step 2: Pray Together
Hold hands and take turns praying:
- Thank G-d for His faithfulness and the ways He has blessed your marriage.
- Ask for His wisdom, patience, and guidance in areas where you feel uncertain.
- Pray for His continued redemption and transformation in your relationship.
Suggested Prayer:
“Abba, thank You for Your faithfulness in our lives and marriage. Just as You remembered Your covenant with Israel, we trust that You will continue to guide and strengthen us as we walk this journey together. Help us to trust in Your timing, lean on Your promises, and reflect Your love to one another. B’shem Yeshua, Amen.”
Weekly Challenge for Couples
- Bless Each Other Daily: Each morning or evening, speak a blessing over one another. For example:
- “May the Lord bless you and keep you. May He strengthen you and fill your heart with peace.”
- Write a “Faithfulness Journal”: Spend time together at the end of the week writing down three ways you saw G-d’s faithfulness in your marriage.
- Choose a Promise to Memorize: Pick one of G-d’s promises from Sh’mot (Exodus) 6:6-8 and commit it to memory together. Let it serve as a reminder of His faithfulness.
Closing Thought
G-d’s covenant with Israel was a demonstration of His unfailing love and commitment. As couples, we are called to reflect that same covenantal love in our marriage. No matter the challenges you face, trust in the One who brought you together and who promises to redeem, restore, and strengthen you.
Shabbat Shalom and blessings on your journey!
