Messianic Jewish Counseling Devotional for Couples on Parashot Matot-Masei
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(Numbers 30:2–36:13)
“2 (1) Then Moshe spoke to the heads of the tribes of the people of Isra’el. He said, “Here is what Ad-nai has ordered: 3 (2) when a man makes a vow to Ad-nai or formally obligates himself by swearing an oath, he is not to break his word but is to do everything he said he would do.”
Theme: Covenant, Commitment, and the Journey Together
Matot-Masei brings us to the conclusion of Bamidbar (Numbers), with themes of vows, responsibility, territory, and journeying toward the promise. It’s a fitting reminder that relationships thrive through covenantal love, clear communication, and shared purpose, principles vital to any marriage rooted in faith.
Reflection for Couples
In these portions, Israel is on the threshold of entering the Promised Land. The tribes are recalling their journey and preparing for their next steps. There are three key takeaways that speak directly to the heart of a couple’s relationship:
1. The Power of Our Words
Numbers 30 opens with vows, a central theme. In a marriage, words can build up or break down. As believers in Yeshua, our words should reflect truth, grace, and commitment.
Ask each other:
"How have my words blessed or hurt you recently?"
"Is there a vow or promise I made that I need to reaffirm, or ask forgiveness for not keeping?"
2. Honoring Boundaries and Responsibilities
In Parashat Masei, the borders of the Land are carefully defined. In a relationship, setting and respecting emotional, spiritual, and practical boundaries nurtures trust and safety.
Reflection prompt:
"Are there any boundaries we’ve crossed or neglected in our relationship?"
"How can we create a healthier space emotionally, spiritually, or physically?"
3. Journeying Together with Purpose
Masei recounts every stage of the Israelites’ journey. Each stop mattered, even the hard places. Likewise, your relationship has seasons: joy, dryness, conflict, and healing. All of them are part of your shared spiritual journey.
Ask each other:
"What season are we in now?"
"How can we walk through this part of our journey with more faith and unity?"
Messianic Jewish Insight
As followers of Yeshua the Messiah, we are invited into a New Covenant, not of law alone, but of transformed hearts (Jeremiah 31:31–33). Our marriages, too, are meant to reflect this covenant, rooted not just in obligation, but in sacrificial love, truth, and redemption.
Yeshua never breaks His vows to us. He is the faithful bridegroom. Let Him be the center and glue of your relationship.
Prayer Together
"Ad-nai, help us to honor the vows we’ve made to You and to each other.
Let our words be full of truth and love.
Show us how to journey together with faith,
even when the path is uncertain.
Renew our covenant with each other
through the love of Messiah Yeshua. Amen."
Suggested Couple Activity
- Map Your Journey:
Draw or list major “milestones” of your relationship, from the first meeting to today. Reflect on how G-d has led you through each stage. - Covenant Renewal:
Write short renewed vows or blessings to each other based on what you’ve learned from this devotional. Read them aloud.
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Shavua Tov,
